Hello, my name is Danica and this is my project.
If there is one thing in life that truly interests me, it’s people. Because there are so many of us and with each new person you get something unique and new and it’s never ending. What we do. What we think. How we think. What really matters to us and what really bothers us. What does each one of us stand for. What do we want and what do we need…. The answers to these questions fascinate me with each person that answers them. We all have things that remain unsaid and people we can’t or don’t want to be honest with. Everyone needs someone to talk to and everyone deserves to have someone that will listen to them with an open mind and an ear that won‘t judge. I would like to see what you have to say. From any perspective we can be seen as sand on the beach or someone specific that has thoughts and ideas all their own. It is so important that we connect with others. Sharing our feelings, problems, excitements, experiences. Everything. It is no mystery that Humans are an extremely social being. In this life all that matters is who we are as individuals. Ultimately, everything that happens depends upon everyone around us. Because a person is a person is a person is a person is you and me.


This is what I would like you to do. Write a letter. Write a letter to anyone about anything with no intention of that person ever seeing it. I believe that the letters we write and throw away are the ones that can be the most crucial to us. It can be anonymous or not. It doesn’t matter. Give yourself the chance to be completely honest with others and yourself. Dear mom. Dear dad. Dear Obama. Dear Iraq. Dear ex-friend. Dear depression. Dear love of my life. Dear teacher. Dear news. Dear celebrity. Dear diary. Dear relative. Dear God. Dear everyone. Dear no one. Dear me. These are the letters you’ve always been wanting to write. The things you’ve always wanted to say. The secrets you always meant to share or not. These are honest and they are you.

When I say write a letter it actually means type an e-mail.

You can send your letter to lostinpost09@gmail.com

And it will appear on this site for anyone who wants to see it.
Unless you do not want it shared publicly. Which you can of course request in your e-mail


Thank You


update! You can now view video updates on youtube!
http://www.youtube.com/user/LostinPost

Dear Andrew,
Since you said you would always love me,
I never thought the day would come when you’d turn around and tell me you were over me.
You broke my heart several times. I’ll never be the same again.
The moment I fell for you everything changed. And when everything else falls apart in my life, you let us fall apart too.
You went away, and you’re happy now. In a way it’s like you absorbed any happiness I had.
It’s kind of ironic, considering you were the one who made me happy.
Which in a way means you made yourself happy.
How I feel for you, is more than I could feel for anyone else, or have ever.
I don’t know how to cope with heartbreak, especially when I don’t even want to get over you.
Now you think that if you stop talking to me for awhile, everything will just get better.
You should know, that never works. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
That doesn’t apply to you does it? You just forgot about me.
I read an old email, from when I was telling someone about you.
It had a part of an MSN conversation on it.
The day you told me you still loved me, and wanted to make it work, but couldn’t.
That doesn’t seem that long ago.
I bet you could pin point the moment you got over me.
Did I change or did you?
There has to be a reason that you did the same to me, as everyone else does.
You can say there’s nothing wrong with me, but this can’t be a coincidence.
It’s funny how, at the time I need you most, you’re not here anymore.
You probably never think about me, you’re wound up in your own life.
But if you do I hope you have the heart to worry about me, to care.
Because if you don’t care, I’ll never believe that anyone ever did.
I don’t know how I fell so far in love.
I want to know, when you said you’ve only ever loved 3 people, was I really one of them?
You’re so close, closer then ever before, and you refused to see me.
I never thought it would be because you were over me.
I hoped it was because you didn’t want to fall for me, for my own, and Landon’s sake.
I was so wrong, as per normal.
I led myself into thinking it’d work out, and we’d end up together.
I knew it was stupid all along, but I feel twice as stupid now.
Thanks for making me believe in us.
I’ll always remember summer, you made me so happy, I should focus on that.
I’m sorry I don’t have the confidence to tell you this.
As much as I want you to feel guilty, I just couldn’t stand seeing you hurt.
Love, more than you could ever understand,
Sophie.